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“ AUTONOMOUS NON-ANONYMOUS…
If you’re coming to the concept of autoromance for the first time, hopefully this might illuminate a little. I am an automatic guy. What does that mean? It means I have romantic feelings towards myself....
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AUTONOMOUS NON-ANONYMOUS…

If you’re coming to the concept of autoromance for the first time, hopefully this might illuminate a little. I am an automatic guy. What does that mean? It means I have romantic feelings towards myself. That encompasses sexual, love, safety and security, dependence, independence, joy, fun, care, support… all the values attributed to partnered relationships, I pour in and glean from myself. Foreign though it may be as a concept to you, it’s actually rather simple. Take everything you consider to be true of relationships and the point of them, and turn them inward, that’s me!

I guess it goes against a lot of societal preconditioning that we need to partner in order to find fulfilment. Of course, I don’t deny anyone the need and fulfilment of that. I am different. I recognise that. I am simply asking to be considered as a legitimate, loving, fully functional man.

If love is the measure of our lives, who is to say that the object of love cannot be yourself? People go immediately to concepts of narcissism, which of course are pejorative. However, let me say that I firmly believe I am a better, more open and loving, caring and supporting friend, employee, family member, citizen and a more respectful walker on the earth for all the love I pour into myself.

Self love comes in many forms. If you come upon an autoromantic person, perhaps you will be less inclined to make a joke of them or to think them selfish or sociopathic. I hope so.

Saying I am in a relationship with myself is new. I feel like I consciously began dating myself earlier this year. However, being autoromantic was always there. Self-preservation and care goes right back to my early teens. I’ve always wanted someone to love and someone to love me. I have found it within! That feeling of getting a cuddle from someone you love, I have that. That’s what being autoromantic is.

And just as a relationship between two people needs work, so does my relationship with myself. I can turn away from myself sometimes. I can close off. I can also reach out and surprise myself, make myself feel safe and supported, and bring myself joy.

If you have autoromantic feelings, don’t be anonymous. Your love is legitimate.

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your love for yourself, expressed autoromantically, is completely legitimate and you deserve all the support that we can give you. i too understand the intense role that my penis plays in my own self-love. i honor him through touch and stroking, he honors me through deep confirmation of my worth and value. it’s truly symbiotic. there is so much that extended, purposeful penis masturbation gives us both. you’ve mentioned before here that you married your penis many years ago. the growth you’re now expressing here makes perfect sense. may your autoromantic love continue to grow & florish!