MASTURBATION….THE WORD
For me there is only one essential erotic word and that is the basic one, masturbation and its grammatical variations, masturbate, masturbator, masturbating, masturbatory. I LOVE this word because it is totally direct and unambiguous. I rarely use the slangy terms, jerk off, wander etc. since they are not, to me, as powerful as masturbate and are often used casually or in ways that are generalized or even somewhat socially acceptable as in referring to someone by saying “what a wanker”, meaning what a jerk or some such thing whereas if someone says “what a masturbator” there is no ambiguity. You know that person is arousing himself sexually by masturbating his penis. I want people, especially people like you who understand me, to know I AM A MASTURBATOR and that I engage in a sex act to arouse myself called MASTURBATION. So this word, masturbate, is sooooo important to me, so arousing to me that I use it over and over again when I write about my sexual nature simply to reinforce the idea of what I am doing. I am masturbating my penis.
Another term, much discussed is “chronic”. I like the term very much as it indicates that a person feels the need to masturbate very often or even constantly. I am not too caught up in how much a person needs to masturbate to be considered chronic but let each person decide for himself if he is chronic or not. It has similarities to the word compulsive in describing ones masturbatory regularity.
Another word is “solosexual” or “batorsexual”. I understand the distinction being drawn as solosexual implies one does not practice masturbation with another person. However I do like the term solosexual as it indicates the private solitary act I perform upon myself. Virtually all of my masturbation is solitary, just me and my penis present. It is basically a secret act and the secrecy implies the idea of shame and discovery all of which make the act more intensely erotic for me. There is much I could say about all of these subjects, solitary masturbation versus masturbation with another, shame over masturbation, and discovery and its coincident feelings of humiliation. I will save these for another discourse but for now,as we speak of terms used by masturbators I will simply say that the term “solosexual” pleases me mightily since the only form of sex I really really want to engage in is MASTURBATION, MASTURBATION and MASTURBATION.