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Edging

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The majority of men are unable to stroke their cocks for any length of time without cumming.  They express a certain amazement toward edgers who can prolong the pleasure for hours, holding back at will.  Their cocks run the show and they soon reach a point of no return, climax and the good times are over.

When we first learned to masturbate, most of us had to do so in secret, and the fear of being caught led us to get done with it quickly.  With a child’s lack of impulse control, we let our cocks take us on a wild, out of control ride.  Premature ejaculation is something we taught ourselves in junior high school.

It is apparent that the cock is controlling the man, and not the other way around.  It order to edge your cock for an extended session, you have to reverse this balance of power.  You do not ask your cock’s permission to do so.

Here is what works for me.  The concept may seem a bit strange, but most edgers I have talked to think this way.

Most edgers think of their cock as a being separate from themselves.  A being that they take ownership of, like a slave under their control and at their mercy.  We refer to him in the third person, this separate being that is ours to use.  Some of us even give him a name to further promote the separation.

You take him in hand and at the outset sentence him to a long session.  He demands to cum.  You do not accept demands.  He begs to cum, but you refuse the request.  You interrupt the stroking, he insists you resume, but you ignore his ultimatum.  He is your possession.  He eventually learns to accept this servitude.

I will stroke for hours then stop without cumming, putting him to bed hungry, asserting my control over him.  (The next session is just that much more intense.)  If that seems incomprehensible, you may want to reassess just who is controlling who.  If you can’t imagine NOT cumming, it is probably because your cock would never allow it, which is exactly my point.

When your cock is a separate being, subject to your control, receiving only the sensations that you allow, it opens unlimited possibilities for intense and prolonged pleasure sessions.

Edging can be a fantastic source of satisfaction. Experiencing the eminence of an orgasm, just the eminence, without triggering the process of ejaculation is a good beginning. But there is plenty more to be discovered. Edging time after time during a lot of time; overflows our blood system with sexual hormones. The consequence is euphoria. Masturbating becomes a purpose of life. Many people believe that this is all they can get from masturbation; so they finally cum. Only the experts know that this is only the beginning. That state of euphoria can be swallowed and transformed into a deeper state of excitement. The frequency of “almost orgasms” can be increased until there is no gap between them. The eminence of orgasm becomes almost permanent.

The continuation of the exercise extinguishes the resistances of our body. Our space-time notions dim and all we sense is a tremendous amount of energy flowing inside us. Some people call it bliss; I call it a kind of contemplation. Anyway, nourishing that never ending ecstasy becomes THE purpose of life.

This kind of extreme joy doesn’t require ejaculation. It can be extended during long periods of time and finished without wasting a single drop of sperm. The unrelieved sexual desire will certainly involve another masturbation. It is up to you to decide if you want to cum or restart playing again.

Tips for beginners, read this before every masturbation session:

1)Remember the way you decided to stop: unejaculated. This includes a few seconds of frustration followed by a long-lasting compensation.

2)No matter how long you masturbate, it will never be long enough to make you feel satisfied. So schedule a next soon session and transfer the hope of relief to it. Always the next.

3)Set an alarm to less than the time you know you can hold ejaculation. Stop masturbating by the second it rings. Increase the number of sessions if necessary.

4)Start slowly. At the beginning the cock is more sensitive and has to get used to stimulation. Self control has also to be recalibrated.

5)Focus on your state of excitement, not on the wish to cum. Stopping before getting too close is the rule. Restarting over and over and over and over and over and over will make you goon anyway.

6)Piss frequently. The urge to piss is commonly misinterpret by the urge to cum.

7)Stop if you feel tired or losing control.

8)Perform non sexual activities between sessions.

Going a few days without edging has two major side effects:
1) Refreshing the desire
2) Increasing the [sensitivity]

Masturbating again after the pause feels terrific; however, one has to be cautious with the risk of having an undesired ejaculation. So here go my suggestions.
1) Decide the way you want to stop before starting. If you want to remain uncummed say it loud “I will finish this session uncummed”.
2) Start slowly. You are anxious to start and your penis is extra sensitive. So I strongly recommend you not to edge for a while. Just make your penis get hard and keep it hard for a long while. Let it (him) get used to the touch of your hand again. There is no hurry. In fact, prolonging is the deal. You will have all the time in the world to edge IF you don’t cum now. Not edging now means edging more in the future; much more.
3) Stay focused. Although you want to enjoy the pleasure of edging, you should first learn to enjoy the pleasure of NOT CUMMING. The pleasure of edging will follow. But the main focus must be not to cum.
4) Interrupt the hand job from time to time. Keep in mind you are not stopping, just splitting the session into several parts.
5) Piss frequently. The urge to piss is commonly felt as the urge to cum.

6) Don’t exceed you resistances. Stop if you feel tired or uncomfortable. Learn to enjoy the pleasure leaving your hungry uncummed cock alone. Learn to enjoy it! Regain your resistances and start playing again.

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OBSESSION

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I am Cock.

Obsession is a relentless spiral that feeds on itself. Masturbation makes the cock want to cum. When ejaculation is denied, the cock wants more masturbation. Masturbation produces a driving desire to cum. The desire to cum produces a driving desire to masturbate. Masturbation prepares the cock to ejaculate, the balls churning, the prostate loaded and full, the cock slit leaking precum. As long as ejaculation is postponed, the cock continues to prepare.

The cock can prepare to cum for weeks. Meaning, the compulsion to masturbate never goes away. The longer I go without cumming, the more Cock becomes an all-consuming obsession. I live and breath Cock. Cock becomes my primary passion. Time divides itself into only two simple categories: time spent masturbating and time spent thinking about masturbating. Which is not to say I spend every free minute doing it. But I spend about every free minute thinking about doing it.

The Cock craves. The Cock hungers. The Cock wants, and then wants more. The longer I go without cumming, the more I want to cum. The more I masturbate uncummed, the more I want to masturbate. The dog chases its own tail. I become Cock.

I reach a state where my existence is devoted to Cock. Every waking hour is some aspect of Cock. Cock is always in my consciousness. I am Cock.

Errands and chores always seem like inconvenient interruptions into my cock-centered life, but even when out and about I am still cognizant of the cock energy around me. I manage to go to work five days a week, I do my shopping like everyone else, I even do volunteer work. But I am always thinking about when I can get back to my primary business of Cock. Even when occupied at work, in the back of my mind I project forward to my next opportunity to commune with my own cock. I wake up in the night moaning my uncummedness.

Addiction:

Some would label this a sex addiction, and I will not be the one to deny it, but I look around me and see people who fritter away their hours sitting in front of the TV, or trolling Facebook or making the rounds of the taverns. In the end there is not much to show for their time. I could do much worse for how I choose to spend my time.

I have discussed this addiction with other obsessive masturbators and have often heard the rationalization that it is a “good addiction” - whatever that is. Is caffeine addiction good or bad? At the least, this might not be as destructive as some other addictions.

But it is still addiction.

Given the choice between watching a reality show on TV or masturbation, I masturbate (my own form of reality). There are many things I do not do, many things that go undone because I am masturbating. Stuff gets put off. Not necessarily procrastination, I’m just pre-occupied doing something else. I’ll do my banking later, shopping will have to wait, the blown-down limbs in the yard are still in the yard. I don’t want to stop. Sometimes I don’t stop when I should be going to bed. Just one more round.

I have been a masturbator since I was twelve years old. Ten years ago I bought my first webcam and saw what my cock really looks like. The fixation ramped up to a higher level. Learning to edge was transformative, because now I could work on my cock for hours at a time with no ejaculation to make me stop. That is when the solosexual addiction really took hold.

Heightened Awareness:

The contradictory dynamic between man and cock is central to my present state of being. I control my cock’s ejaculatory function. Yet that same cock controls me, in the addictive sense.

Withholding the release that is orgasm forces my attention to stay centered on Cock. Unejaculated, I exist in a constant state of horniness. Horniness is no longer a condition to be gotten rid of, as most men see it. I am addicted to horniness. I NEED to not cum.

In this heightened state of Cock awareness, I not only notice, but actively examine the male energy of every male I encounter. I silently commune with their maleness. It is all about maleness. All about Cock. I see a man in public and assume he masturbates. I wonder which hand he uses.

Cock Focus:

And so the universe revolves around Cock. The world is Cock.

Few men have the faintest awareness of this, and even fewer the faintest idea why one would choose to do this. Every once in a while someone watching me masturbate on webcam will ask me to show my face/chest/ass. (Somehow, these are usually guys who have no cam themselves.) They miss the point and certainly don’t understand my essence. Guys will invite me to control their cocks. Control your own cock. I am too busy controlling mine.

There is a delightful little book called “The Practice of the Presence of God,” a small compilation of letters from a monk who was a lowly cook in a monastery 300 years ago. His spiritual practice was to try always to keep God in the forefront of his mind. Even if he was peeling potatoes, God was ever present in his consciousness. Similarly, one becomes the Practice of the Presence of Cock.

The Uncummed Cock:

I know men who have gone 100 days without cumming. I have done it myself. Others have gone a year or more, actively masturbating, withholding their load. It is do-able.

When I hit the edge, my entire body glows. Chills emanate from my groin and flow up my abs and into my face. I can feel the endorphins pumping into my system. I am addicted to the endorphins. None of this is possible if an early ejaculation brings it all crashing to an end.

The other night I sat on the bed staring at my cock, not touching him. How amazing, the male sexual system: the cockhead, the leaking slit, the flare around the base of the head, the sweet spot, the shaft, the prostate, the testicles, tubes, nerves, triggers. All of this is interconnected: edging, denial, solosexuality, obsession, anatomy.

The uncummed cock is never satisfied. He always craves more. I don’t want to stop - I’m not done yet. The uncummed cock is never done,

I am Cock. I am only Cock. I am nothing but Cock.

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To cum or deny?

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Ejaculating melts the erection and weakens the obsession.
Denying ejaculation, instead, prolongs the erection and deepens the masturbation addiction.

Honestly; what do you prefer?

1- To cum now and stop masturbating for a while?

2- To cum later and masturbate less anyhow?

Or,

3- To halt each masturbation without ejaculating and… become a super-hyper-chronic-masturbator, hopeless cock reliant; masturbating more often than the average of chronic masturbators, edging longer than most sexual marathoners, gooning deeper than most stupid dudes and have a really outstanding, delicious, unmatched, absolutely fulfilling and satisfying sexual life?

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I prefer 3