11/27/2016 - Is My Masturbation Practice Addictive
11/27/2016 – Is there an addictive component to your bate? Do you have to bate or is it a choice? Is there such a thing as masturbation addiction? Did you know that there actually is a website for a Twelfth Step Program called Masturbators Anonymous? One of my most faithful readers wrote a blog the other day on this very subject. And it concerns me. Masturbation is one of the most wonderful penile activities we have available to us. Enjoying an excellent bate can be the highlight of a man’s day. How do we enjoy masturbation without it becoming a destructive force in or lives?
These are the issues I want to discuss today. Before I go into the negatives I must affirm how important and enjoyable my masturbation practice is to me. Many of you who have either read my profile or my blogs before know the tortured path I traveled to get to the point of bate acceptance and balance I have achieved, but the thing that has changed is finding myself amongst a community of bators who have exchanged whatever shame they had about the bad feelings they might have had from being accused of masturbating too much to finding exactly what is enough masturbation. For our own sanity we must find the place where our masturbatory practice is salutary, sane and acceptable, to us and to the persons who are closest to us. If someone else is going to be impacted by our enjoyment of our penile pleasure we need to find a way to make those persons as comfortable about our practice as we are otherwise it will lead to many unwanted complications.
The question is, do those who exult in referring to their masturbatory practice as an “addiction” really want to feel bad about masturbation in order to enjoy it? Then we look at what exactly constitutes an addiction. I think we can all agree that addiction refers to consumption of a substance in a way that is harmful and that alters one’s personality and behavior that is destructive to himself and others, or to a behavior such as gambling and spending that threatens one’s wellbeing. The next question is how can masturbation do these things? So do we miss things like meals, appointments, work and other important activities in order to indulge our proclivity to masturbate? I think when these things happen that masturbation has become a problem. But it seems to me that programs like Masturbators Anonymous are designed to stop masturbation completely just as Alcoholics Anonymous is to address alcohol abuse.
Masturbation is an activity that should by definition be one of the most pleasurable things a man can enjoy. It’s almost like we were designed to be masturbators. But when we become consumed by it how do we find our way back to sanity. I believe that sharing in a community like the one that has been formed by BateWorld is the way to find peace, satisfaction and health in a balanced life which accepts and includes a full masturbatory practice integrated into a whole healthy life. Bate on brothers, I’m grateful I still can enjoy my bate life without it being addictive.
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