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11/27/2016 - Is My Masturbation Practice Addictive

11/27/2016 – Is there an addictive component to your bate? Do you have to bate or is it a choice? Is there such a thing as masturbation addiction?  Did you know that there actually is a website for a Twelfth Step Program called Masturbators Anonymous?  One of my most faithful readers wrote a blog the other day on this very subject.  And it concerns me.  Masturbation is one of the most wonderful penile activities we have available to us.  Enjoying an excellent bate can be the highlight of a man’s day.  How do we enjoy masturbation without it becoming a destructive force in or lives?

These are the issues I want to discuss today. Before I go into the negatives I must affirm how important and enjoyable my masturbation practice is to me.  Many of you who have either read my profile or my blogs before know the tortured path I traveled to get to the point of bate acceptance and balance I have achieved, but the thing that has changed is finding myself amongst a community of bators who have exchanged whatever shame they had about the bad feelings they might have had from being accused of masturbating too much to finding exactly what is enough masturbation.  For our own sanity we must find the place where our masturbatory practice is salutary, sane and acceptable, to us and to the persons who are closest to us.  If someone else is going to be impacted by our enjoyment of our penile pleasure we need to find a way to make those persons as comfortable about our practice as we are otherwise it will lead to many unwanted complications.

The question is, do those who exult in referring to their masturbatory practice as an “addiction” really want to feel bad about masturbation in order to enjoy it?  Then we look at what exactly constitutes an addiction.  I think we can all agree that addiction refers to consumption of a substance in a way that is harmful and that alters one’s personality and behavior that is destructive to himself and others, or to a behavior such as gambling and spending that threatens one’s wellbeing.  The next question is how can masturbation do these things?  So do we miss things like meals, appointments, work and other important activities in order to indulge our proclivity to masturbate? I think when these things happen that masturbation has become a problem.  But it seems to me that programs like Masturbators Anonymous are designed to stop masturbation completely just as Alcoholics Anonymous is to address alcohol abuse.

Masturbation is an activity that should by definition be one of the most pleasurable things a man can enjoy.  It’s almost like we were designed to be masturbators.  But when we become consumed by it how do we find our way back to sanity.  I believe that sharing in a community like the one that has been formed by BateWorld is the way to find peace, satisfaction and health in a balanced life which accepts and includes a full masturbatory practice integrated into a whole healthy life.  Bate on brothers, I’m grateful I still can enjoy my bate life without it being addictive.

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1/5/2016 - To Lube or not to Lube

1/5/2016 – To Lube or Not To Lube, That is the Question. Sorry for the bastardized Shakespeare but I’m sure all my BateWorld bator buddies will forgive me and get me. Also forgive me for the lateness of today’s post and its brevity.  I’m sitting here typing already naked and with cock tings in place.  But by this time most days my blog is already published and some of you are starting your warm-up bates as you read it. My penis agrees with you.  He’s saying enough of the keystrokes get on with the cock strokes.  OK OK.  Here’s today’s short and sweet blog.

I was phone bating with a blog follower yesterday and while we were enjoying bating our penises, I asked him in bator conversation, what kind of lube he used.  This question was prompted by him telling me that his bate vacation was ending when he returned to work and it was a good thing, because after so much vacation bating his penis was sore.  Somewhat taken aback by his news I asked him what kind of lube he used. I, myself, since starting on BateWorld in 2013, became a devotee of the blessed Albolene. Before joining BateWorld I had been a pretty regular user of Vaseline.  When I moved to San Francisco, I started using Crisco.  I remember going to tricks’ houses and seeing industrial kitchen size vats of the stuff.  I, of course automatically knew that these boys liked to be fisted.  I have stuck my fist in a number of asses, but it never was my thing.  I would ask myself, “Why does he want my fist when my cock would do the job so much more handily (no pun intended) and pleasingly for both of us.

Back to my original question of my phone bate buddy. His answer was that he didn’t like the mess.  I reminded him that the tradeoff for the gooey mess was a bate of exceptional proportions.  As a boy and teen I used to bate dry or with spit and the inevitable result was a very sore penis or sores on my penis.  And the very last thing an avid bator like me wants is anything that will interrupt my regular bating sessions.  My penis and I require more than food or sleep.  In fact I would or have foregone both in order to log my bating hours to worship and pleasure my cock.

So how ‘bout you?  The question is “To lube or not to lube?”  What is your preference?  Now, I really have to get down to business my penis has waited long enough

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11/28/2016 - How to Handle a Craving Penis

11/28/2016 – How to handle a craving penis.  As many of you know from reading my blogs, Saturday is always a very busy day for me and it is almost impossible to find sufficient time to enjoy the kind of bate to which I have become acquainted.  A quick jerk off no longer works for me, release and pipe cleaning is no longer the point.  As one my respondents to a recent blog said, “If don’t have at least two hours for a session, I just postpone it.”  I received a comment from a bator recently who commented that although he was in his early 50’s he found bating more enjoyable than it was when he was in his teens, twenties and thirties.  And I think that is a common occurrence.  The acceptance and patience that come with maturity can allow a bator to experience more extended pleasure while bating than someone who has to get to the nut quickly, hence longer and longer bates.

But what happens when a daily bator has to fast from bating, such as I had to do on Saturday?  Why is the penis of such a male so much more sensitive?  Why does his penis respond so much more quickly when stimulated?  I don’t know. I just know that when I began to play with my penis in bed under the warm covers on Sunday morning the experience was electric.  Just touching my hardening cock sent tingles throughout my body and I mean every part.  I toyed with every portion of my penis and when I started to gently scrape my finger nail on the most sensitive tip, the frenulum, I was so aroused I was on the knife edge of orgasm.  When a penis is accustomed to daily sessions of two to four hours this is very dangerous.  But I did have what I think are the little orgasms, the non-ejaculatory kind.  They sent warmth and happiness throughout my body, but without the ejaculatory release of semen I think all penises crave, the kind that endow a bator with a satisfied grin but also are very sleep inducing I was still anticipating the main bate.

I did not proceed to ejaculation.  I was actually satisfied, temporarily with the wonderful feelings my penis had brought me throughout my entire body.  They were lovely promises for what I would get when I really would have my true extended bate session.

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11/29/2016 - Penile Massage Bliss

11/29/2016 – I don’t know why I keep thinking I’ll be able to do it when I have failed time and time again.  Before writing today’s blog I stripped down and got ready for my bate thinking I would be able to read the responses to my blog and not find my hand greasing my boner but you guys write such arousing stuff that what is a bator to do.  And of course I was caught in the bating trap again.  Not that I mind, if I have to be entrapped that is exactly where I want to be, kicking back and enjoying my thick cock pulsating as my greasy fingers keep tantalizing him, and my cock keeps saying, “You don’t have to write that blog, just keep bating me, you do it so well.”  It’s hard to say no or wait to a throbbing penis in the middle of his overdue bate, but that is what I have to do.  I want to write this blog.

You know how much I love a long greasy edged up bate, probably as much as you do.  One of my bator responders told me he would be spending until 4 AM bating his monster. Sorry, that is much too late for me. I usually awaken at 5:15 AM.  But I am definitely planning on enjoying today’s bate as soon as I finish this blog.  But today I want to talk about a new form of bating I’ve recently discovered. At first it was just playing around with my cock when I wasn’t doing anything else.  I did not have time to engage in a long bate session like I plan to do today.  This playful toy bate would begin by just touching my soft penis.  My penis always likes to be touched.  But in this situation I would be sitting somewhere in a comfortable chair or on a bus or waiting in a car and I would touch my soft penis and he would respond and I’d try to maneuver him into a place in my Lev’s where he had some growing room and then he’d start to stretch out and return some nerve end responses and then I’d manipulate him a little more and now he was heading into a firmer semi and then the rest of my body would start responding and it was as though all the thinking parts of my big head would be transferred to the smaller head of my penis and then a feeling of absolute peace and contentment would settle on my entire body and my big brain would retreat to a complete “I don’t care” mode and I would have an overall feeling of complete happiness.  I have tried this quite a number of times.  For me it is accomplished solely with my hand and penis, no visuals, no porn just heavenly penile massage.  I have never cum this way, I doubt if I’d want to but the feeling is absolutely wonderful.

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1/7/2016 - Normalizing Masturbation

1/7/2016 – Before I start writing my blog in earnest today, I need to make a comment.  When I started writing my daily blog, my intention was to keep a kind of masturbation journal.  If you have been following it since I started writing it in November 2015, you know how much I love masturbation, my penis, other men’s penises, and the camaraderie that results from men enjoying masturbation together.  But something disconcerting happened along the way.  My ego started to usurp my blog, and instead of just writing from the heart or penis, I became mired in these thoughts, what are the guys on BateWorld thinking about it?  How many are reading them?  How are they comparing with the other blogsters?  And just thinking about this has been upsetting for me, so I am going to try to recapture the original spirit and also try to stop worrying what you think.  I like to write.  I have published a number of books and I really enjoy playing with words and the mental process involved in writing.  When I add the fact that I am writing about my very favorite subject, one that I rarely discussed on paper and was frequently embarrassed about discussing with anyone, I get to remember how liberating my membership on BateWorld has been.  So, my subject today is:  “Normalizing Masturbation.”

What exactly do I mean by this title?  Basically I am commenting about a phenomenon that has been happening over the last twenty years.  Masturbation has come out of the closet.  In western culture we generally refer to the first man as Adam.  I think most western folks are familiar with Michelangelo’s Sistine Chapel ceiling portrait of God creating Adam, whether or not they accept the biblical story.  And although it is not related in Genesis, I suspect that Eve caught Adam, once or twice, masturbating, and did what many women do, she shamed Adam for this most private and exquisite of pleasures.  But Adam wasn’t a boy or teen, he was made an adult.  It was for his boys, Cain, Abel and Seth, to have that first discovery we all remember so well.  And what about the next generation, with whom did Seth make more boys who would get to discover masturbation?  A discovery that is made millions of times each day.  But the bad news is, there was usually a mother or a father or a teacher or a religious leader to shame the budding bator.

And many of us know how much this shaming damaged us. But the incredibly good news is, it doesn’t have to be that way anymore.  I am curious, brother bators, how many of you were shamed as boys, and even as adults, for exulting in our very particular indulgence?  Again, with sites like BateWorld and the masturbatory delights available on Tumblr, male masturbation is coming out of the closet. I’ll give you a concrete example. A medical circumstance necessitated that I take the hideous BPH drug Flowmax.  Now I don’t know if every man has this problem with Flowmax, but I spoke to a buddy about it, and both of us experienced a retrograde ejaculation, that is instead of the semen shooting out like a fountain upon ejaculation, the semen went backwards.  It was horrible, and I immediately told the two female nurses that this was completely unacceptable.  Masturbation has been a very significant part of my leading a healthy and balanced life and there was no way I was going to give it up.  There was a time when I would have been too embarrassed to say this, but today penile pleasure is way too important to me and hiding in a closet is not acceptable anymore.  I have lost the fear of speaking about this very essential and important activity. All I can say is that I am so grateful for the normalizing of masturbation and I encourage all fathers to counsel your boys that this is something men do and it feels really good and is good and healthy for all us masturbating men.

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11/30/2016 - Does the Age We Start Penis Play Influence Our Bating Lives

11/30/2016 – Does the Age We Start Penis Play Influence Our Bating Lives?  Yesterday another bator commented on my blog and we got into a bate chat.  I had heard from him a few times but never viewed his profile.  Since I was enjoying the bate and the chat so much I decided to investigate further. His profile had many similarities to my own, but the thing that struck me the most was that his penile focus had begun at the same age as mind did, three years old.  There has only been one other bator on BateWorld who has mentioned the same early start I and my bate buddy from yesterday share.  In addition both of us were caught and scolded numerous times but never reformed.  Despite the interference from parents and teachers we have never even thought of letting go of our masturbatory childish habits.  Instead we have nurtured them and allowed them to flower into the very avid bators we are today.  The fact is I seriously doubt how any bator can stop after he’s tasted the incredibly feelings that are just a stroke away. Even when we were kids, i.e. pre-ejaculatory, when we first experienced the dry orgasms available to pre-pubescent boys would we ever be able to stop?  It reminds of a story about a father who caught his son masturbating and said to him, “You better not do that again or you’ll never be able to stop,” as if after tasting that pleasure he’d ever be able to stop.

But returning to today’s topic, how does the age of discovery of penile pleasure affect the future masturbator?  I don’t remember what the other guy who started masturbatory activity at the age of three said other than that he too also began at three because we never discussed discouragement and the violation of those prohibitions.  I just know with my bator friend from yesterday that both his and my masturbatory lives continued to blossom into the devoted masturbators we are today, despite the disapproval.

When I started playing with my penis frequently bringing him to delicious fry orgasms, I had no idea that someday these orgasms would be wet and messy.  I had no concept of what it means to be Gay.  I had no idea what it meant to have penis play with other boys.  I just knew I wanted to have those really great feelings in my penis and I wanted other boys to share my pleasure and experience theirs.  To me there are no feelings like those achievable via excellent edging masturbation. I’m not a solosexual, if another guy’s penis mouth or butt is available I usually won’t say no, as I assume solosexuals do, but like solosexuals I generally derive much more extended pleasure from deep masturbation than I do from any other sex acts.  And I wonder, did my early masturbatory experiences inform my preference for a sex life today that is predominantly focused on masturbation?

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1/8/2016 My Path to BateWorld

1/8/2016 – I love BateWorld.  It has enhanced my bating life like nothing else.  So, I thought I’d devote today’s blog to a description of my path to this bating nirvana.

If you have read my profile, you’ll know that I discovered a form of masturbation at a very young age.  I was three.  And, as I am sure all of you would agree, once we have found this glorious and very inexpensive pleasure, there is no going back.  At least there hasn’t been for me and I sure hope to be still bating on my dying day.

What has been my route?  For my early years I bated almost entirely on my bed, rubbing my boy penis on my pillow.  After a time I graduated to creating an embryonic Fleshjack.  I placed one pillow perpendicular to another and fucked the two pillows until I achieved an incredible dry orgasm.  Then came that magical evening in November of my eleventh year, when the orgasm had become wet and very messy.  It was a moment I will never forget but it scared the shit out of me. As I had done so often before, I decided I better stop, but the experience had been too spectacular, and after a few days I started all over again.  This pattern continued for a little while, until I thought this thing I had discovered was too good to keep to myself, so I tried to get other boys to join me in my erotic play.  I told one how incredible a wet orgasm felt and encouraged him to try my pillow method. At this point I knew of no other ways to accomplish this feat. He was not impressed so I tried other tactics.

From this point I retreated back to my solitary adventures, several times experimenting with hand manipulation.  I found some Vaseline in the medicine chest and decided to stick my hard cock in the jar.  It felt wonderful, but for some reason or other I returned to the pillow pleasure.  One afternoon when I was returning home on a country road from a piano lesson, I passed a deserted field and since I was so horny I decided to lie down in the field, take my raging boner out for a ride, and masturbated using spit.

When I was in high school, I discovered a deserted lake or irrigation pond near the field where I had masturbated and decided it would be a great place for an evening nude swim and jerk-off and I did this many times.  I had discovered an advertisement in the back of my father’s Esquire for Ah-Men Shops for Men posing straps and I wrote immediately for a catalog.  It was the best bate fuel I had ever found, but then, after an amazing masturbation session, the fear of it being seen by the wrong eyes forced me to destroy it.   I then reconstructed it, and then hide it for future use.

I had one exceptional masturbatory experience when I was 15 and the other guy was 17, but that ended in dismal failure. Then I was pretty much on my own until I discovered the possibilities of campus restrooms in college.  About the same time I also discovered parks and shopping centers.  It was not long after that that I was diverted to oral and anal sex and masturbation took a decided backseat.  Of course, while I was seated on toilets with glory holes waiting for a cock or a cocksucker, I was totally engaged in masturbatory hope.

From this I discovered that masturbation was simply a preparation for something better, an hors-d’ouvre, prior to the main course of penetrative sex.  I masturbated all the time when I wasn’t on the prowl, but I was always looking for something better.  I also discovered exhibitionist bating, especially in windows.  When the internet started to become a masturbatory paradise, things changed.  The first site I found was Jacking World, a site most frequented by a younger set devoted to jacking off.  Still this was a great resource. It was on this site that I first learned about a double orgasm – jack your cock until you know you are going to shoot, let go and let a couple of shots blow without touching your cock, and then resume jacking until an incredible orgasm is released.

It was on Jacking World that I learned of the wonders of Nifty.org.  And what a treasure trove of masturbatory material that was and is.  At the same time I was ordering jockstraps from International Jock.com, and this site revealed the erotic world of Andrew Christian’s line of men’s jockstraps, swim bikinis, briefs and other sleazy apparel. One day Andrew Christian’s website invited me to view their Tumblr page.  This was a real revelation, for the scantily clad Andrew Christian models were now on full display, nude with delicious hard-ons.  J joined immediately.

Once on Tumblr the amazing world of online masturbation expanded even further.  One of the guys I was following on Tumblr asked me if I was on BateWorld.  I asked, “What is that?”  He told me, “Check it out, you’d be perfect.”  Within seconds I joined, created a profile and the rest is history.  Tomorrow I’ll tell you about how one of my BateWorld buddies pursued me and the lengths he went to to gain my allegiance.  

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The Proud Male Masturbator’s Tumblr Blog

1/10/2015 – There is a blog on Tumblr that so perfectly expresses my feelings about how Masturbation is the Perfect Expression of our Masculinity as Proud Bators, that I want to make it the theme of my blog today and share it with you.  The post is headed with the most magnificent video of homo masurbandus I have seen in a long time, I advise you to check it out. But the text is the thing about which I want to celebrate and comment.

The Tumblr blog is called The Proud Male.  The text is as follows:

Every living man on Earth enjoys playing with their penis.  No matter if the penis is fucking, being blown, or simply just being masturbated. Men enjoy having their penises played with. There’s nothing that compares to the feeling of being erect and the sensations in your penis head and shaft. The moment the ejaculation arrives, that moment of greatness, men feel at their peak of masculinity. When every man feels their semen as it begins to rush through their penis shaft, that’s when they know their orgasm is coming. That’s when the  testosterone and sperm flow through a man’s body and penis. 

When men feel their first spurt of semen shooting out of their sensitive, yet erect penis, their mind clears up and everything makes sense; there’s a reason your nuts produce sperm, there’s a reason your shaft is so hard, there’s a reason your cock head is so sensitive, there’s a reason why your semen feels so powerful as it travels out of your penis… The reason is to make you feel indestructible; that’s when men enjoy manhood the most. That’s what it means to be male, that’s how it feels to be a MAN!

Wish he would have used the male singular possessive pronoun, “his,” since only males have penises.  But this statement brings home the ways in which masturbating our rigid rock hard penises allows us to express our profound acceptance and joy in being male.  Just reading the text and watching the proud male vigorously and lovingly worship his magnificent penis incites me to want to imitate his actions and do the very same thing to my erect throbbing penis.  It is very difficult for me to watch any male masturbation video without immediately grabbing my own leaking member, slathering him with Albolene and descending into the batehole with the masturbator in the video.  When he is as handsome, sexy, toned and endowed as the man in the video I find him and his cock absolutely irresistible.  I can’t stopped until I have either edged so far that I’ am on the brink of orgasm or actually reach the point of no return and sperm myself like a tsunami.

And this brings me to the next point about this post. In his telling, he reminds me that in the process of masturbation I am accessing more male hormone because of the abundant testosterone that is released, that essential elixir brewed in our testicles that makes us men.

So many of us bators on BateWorld, though not all, I know, experienced shaming about our masturbatory proclivities as boys that a blog like The Proud Male is necessary for us to reclaim our full masculinity through glorious moments of proud masturbation. To acknowledge that this is one of the things that makes us proud males, proud masturbators.  It is a male affirmation to glory in the beauty of the masculinity of pure masturbatory pleasure.  Celebrate our magnificent male privilege to masturbate to our heart and penis’s content with me, my brothers.