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my first post

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I love to jack off. It’s as simple as that. I think I love jacking off more than anything. I’ve never really had any shame about that, and thought that all guys would at least admit that they like to masturbate. I was wrong. Some guys will talk about it, but only in passing or when making a joke. I think I am the first person to hear the words ‘I love to masturbate’ in my life…and that is because I said it. However, upon discovering that there are actually guys that not only love to jerk off but are proud masturbators/solosexuals/pornosexuals/bators…you get it, right? Anyway, when I first discovered that masturbation was my thing - my fetish - I found positive reinforcements somewhat hidden from society from Harold Litten’s ‘The Joy of Solo Sex’ to a tiny little zine back in the 90s entitled JOX and all the solo porn I could get my hands on. Then came Bate Nation and, finally, Bate World. I had found a community that would understand me and my sexuality. And it is beautiful, however, I still find myself somewhat in the minority.

In the masturbation community, there are edgers, bators, gooners, cum deniers, etc. and at one point I felt overwhelmed. I got over that quick. Bating the penis seems to be the standard along with edging for hours and hours and staying ‘un-cummed’. I’m much more simple than that. I love the masturbation community and the guys who make up it’s population. I love to jack off. There, that’s it. While the words masturbation, masturbating, masturbator, solosexual, et al. do turn me on, I find that I also get off on terms like jacking off, jerking off, beating off as well as words like dick, cock, dong. The word ‘penis’ never really did anything for me. It’s just a word my doctor uses when he’s examining me, or a word used on television or a movie or a story to describe the male sex organ. Most of what I encounter in the ‘bator community’ seems to be mainly focused on bators, edgers, gooners, etc. with a distinction that these masturbators are the REAL masturbators of our community while everyone who doesn’t spend hours edging and gooning and cum denial are secondary masturbators. I don’t really agree with that. Masturbation and jacking off are the same to me. It’s the type of masturbation we indulge in is where our differences form.

Usually, my masturbation sessions involve me playing with myself while watching pics and videos of male masturbation (partnered sex just doesn’t really turn me on, even though I will rarely watch a bit of it…and you can include mutual masturbation with that: I’m not turned on by it). I get hard, I jack and play with myself more. Sometimes I’m verbal, sometimes it’s just words repeating in my head. Sometimes a short video will get me off, sometimes it will be fantasy. I will shoot into my cum rag and enjoy the delicious afterglow of my orgasm. These sessions last between 2 to 2.5 hours. If I have some time or if it’s my day off, I will enjoy another session or two after constantly playing with myself between jack off sessions.

What really turns me on are guys that are into masturbation. I mean, really into it!! It’s especially so with men - regardless of sexual orientation - who would rather jerk off than fuck or suck. I love reading, watching, thinking about male masturbation. However, there doesn’t seem to be much resources for the jack off addict. I know I’m not the only one. I’m sure of it. I feel this way because I found a community of masturbators and felt so welcomed into it. I love sites like Bateworld and other sites, blogs, etc. devoted to male masturbation. But for the jackers out there who might be like me, there is little to read or listen to. And I think that’s why I want to start this blog: to show yet another facet of the solosexual community, to write about my life and to share what gets me off. In addition, maybe I will find someone like me: a jack off addict who can’t stop thinking of his and other guys’ dicks and how we play with them and pleasure ourselves; someone obsessed with male masturbation.

And, there, my fellow masturbators, is my first post.

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Brother, there are more of us than you know-

MASTURBATORS MASTURBATING TO MASTURBATORS MASTURBATING.

Or in your preferred terminology-

JERKOFFS JERKING OFF TO JERKOFFS JERKING OFF.

edgeaddict theedginglife

Advanced Edging Techniques from a Master Edger

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For edgers, it’s all about the erection. Being hard is everything. The harder you are and the longer you stay hard, the better. The orgasm, if you will excuse the pun, is anti-climatic. Simple edging techniques involve being relaxed and comfortable, breathing deeply and slowly, listening to soothing music, using the right lubricant, varying stroke speed, length, hand grip and grip strength, pulling up and pushing down on the penis, etc. Once you get to the point where you can last 20 - 30 minutes or more before orgasm, it’s time to move on to more advanced edging techniques.

Dorsal Vein Compression Cord
Blood flows into the penis through arteries mainly on the interior of the penis. Blood flows out of the penis primarily through the dorsal vein (the large vein on the top of the penis where it intersects the pubic bone). By relaxing and using reverse kegels (covered below) you allow more blood to flow into the penis, and by using a dorsal vein compression cord you can hinder blood from flowing out of the penis. The more blood in the penis, the bigger and harder it gets.

To use a dorsal vein compression cord, get some ¼" cord that is about 1.5 times your waist size long. Then tie a simple knot in the center of the cord. Once you have an erection, slip the cord over the penis with the knot centered on the top. Then run the cord down through your butt and up around to the front of your waist, pull firmly and tie it off. This puts direct compression on the dorsal vein and hinders the amount of blood flowing out of the penis. (Note: you need to have a nice hard erection before using the cord.)

Reverse Kegels
Kegel exercises strengthen the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle. You are using this muscle when you stop the flow of urine mid-stream - sort of a clenching that also tightens the anus. When you clench the PC muscle while you have an erection, you can make the penis jump up and down. When this muscle gets fully tightened it leads to ejaculation. A strong uncontrolled PC is often the cause of premature ejaculation.

For edgers, we want the opposite. There is no reason for edgers to ever do Kegel exercises. We want to relax the PC muscle and prolong the erection. Reverse Kegels involve gently pushing down on the pelvic floor, sort of like you’re trying to push out a turd. You can also engage this by forcefully pushing out your urine stream (the opposite of clenching above). Once you get good at this, you can open and ‘purse’ your anus like lips puckered for a kiss. When your anus is this relaxed, you should be able to slide something small, like a pencil, into the rectum without any reaction from the anus, no tightening, etc. (Using something larger, like a dildo, will be too tight and create a reaction.) If you can stay this relaxed, you should be able keep an erection for a long time.

Ball Ring
Similarly the testicles get tight during sexual arousal as the cremaster muscle pulls them up to the body. The tighter they get, the more they put pressure on the base of the penis leading to a condition like a clenched PC muscle, which leads to ejaculation. Something edgers like to postpone. To alleviate this pressure, put a normal 2" cock ring (not tight) around the testicles so they can not pull up completely tight to the penis. This also helps keep the anus relaxed.

Edging Chair
As most guys know, more blood flows into the penis while your body is upright (standing or kneeling, etc.) then when lying down. However, lying down is more relaxing which is one of the primary tenets of edging. Therefore the best position for edging is somewhere in between. I have built an edging chair strictly for this purpose. The seat is about a foot off the floor and tilted back slightly so you can bend your legs or put them straight out. Also the seat is short so that your ass hangs off a little. The back is angled back about 60 degrees, is narrow enough so you can let your arms hang down, and is high enough so you can rest your head back. The entire chair is padded. Sitting in this chair is very comfortable, allowing you to completely relax your whole body. Ah, there’s that 'R’ word again. The other nice thing about this chair is since it is low to the ground it easily allows 'interested parties’ to kneel or sit comfortably near the action.

In a normal session, I put on some music (Delerium’s 'Karma’ is a current favorite), close my eyes, sit back and relax. I stroke about 15 minutes before putting on the compression cord and after another 15 minutes or so, I slide a pencil-sized probe in my rectum. Once the probe slides out easily on its own, I know I’m fully relaxed. After another 15 minutes, I put on the ball ring. At this point, my cock, balls, anus, and hand are electric and tingling - 'every nerve like a firefly’. Finally about an hour or more after starting, I have the most incredible full body orgasm. There are times when I stop after an hour or so without orgasm - just let my body tingle for a while, then start again later. Using these techniques, I can also have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. The wonderful thing is since I go about this in a completely relaxed state, I can do this 3 to 4 times a day. And each time my cock is rock hard.

Being a bodybuilder, my overall muscle tone helps, and the muscle control, breathing rhythm, etc. came naturally to me, but I am sure that anyone can master all of the techniques necessary to be a master edger.

All of the advanced techniques mentioned above are shown here -http://www.lpsg.org/members/boatnik/albums/b&w/626130-b-and-w_2685.html

From LPSG (Large Penis Sex Group) 
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/advanced-edging-techniques-from-a-master-edger.294275/

edgeaddict

Very good advices for all edgers.

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This man has his pleasure firmly in hand. With this vid I can “feel” what he is feeling. His pleasure engulfs him, but there is so much pleasure and intensity to it, that it engulfs the viewer as well. He knows he has power and it is power strong enough to where he can allow us a look into his intimate world. It is a moment in time that all men can recall from our collective past. The life of every man has intersected with every other man past, present and future. And, we can access that intersection when we choose to fill ourselves with gratifying sexual intensity when taking our penis to the edge and denying an orgasm. Or as in this case, by seeking out the glorious sensation of penis bliss, achieved through an ejaculating orgasm. Bate on Brother. You are an inspiration. And I think I will loop it for myself about 10-20 times. uuuuufffff. 

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funfur:
“Dad said he was checking my testes but then I got hard.
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That’s all good there, son. Men in our family always have that reaction to a another man’s touch. I can teach you some of the fun things that men can share with one another. That is,...
funfur

Dad said he was checking my testes but then I got hard.

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That’s all good there, son. Men in our family always have that reaction to a another man’s touch. I can teach you some of the fun things that men can share with one another. That is, if you’re interested in learning about how your penis can bring about remarkable physical pleasure. I know that you have been masturbating for several years now, and that feels really good when you’re doing it. Right? With a little knowledge and some dedicated practice, your penis can be controlled into providing you a level of satisfaction that is unique and otherwise unobtainable. It’s called ‘penis bliss’ and it’s something you’ll never believe existed all this time, right there in your hands. It’s all buried beneath the layers of how to stimulate this throbbing erection of yours.